SMARTmessage (DOM) 11/9/14

We are up to 148 likes on the FaceBook Page SMARTplace, and our report card surveys are not where they should be yet. Remember we will be using the report card at www.BetterME.us to track our progress.
As a reminder for last months targets,

1) Mental Fitness: hopefully people are finding the value in the practice of mindfullness and are working this into their daily schedule. To summarize there are two types; body awareness (including thoughts), and object awareness. There have been demonstrated changes in brain structure with practice, and benefits on par (perhaps not better) with other therapies that help with depression, anxiety, and wellness in general. It may be that this helps with focus. If you want to go to the store but stop along the way to chat with every neighbor, you cant get to where you are going. This practice helps to build awareness so that in the moment, you can determine what is appropriate. Given its simplicity, there is a strong recommendation to develop this as a habit; 10 minutes once or twice per day.

2) Family Direction: you should have identified at least one goal to accomplish over the next 6-12 months, and drafted a family mission statement. This can be a draft. To help the group, please consider posting your goal and your mission statement in the family mission target on Facebook. My observations with those who seemed troubled by the many challenges in life is that they seem to have no sense of direction; either who they are or where they are going. The bible states where there there is no vision the people perish. As such is strongly recommended that you achieve an “A” in this subject. With purpose and direction, though challenges are there, you just don’t see them or rather pay attention to them.

Current Targets:

1) Nutritional Fitness: there is one recommendation and that is to watch forks over knives. Please post the people, products, and practices that help you eat better. If you don’t know, you can go to www.BetterME, and download steps 4,5,6 which deal with nutrition. It would also be helpful if you would pay attention to when you get the “itis” vs when you feel alert after eating and describe what you had to eat.

2) Political Fitness: remember that the show begins after the election. Hopefully everyone voted, but if not you can still be engaged. To get an A in this category, you need to be registers and write a letter to one of your legislators.. There is a posting for the website www.openstates.org. This site allows you to be aware of your legislator, and their activity. There is a very nice app for the iphone that allow for tracking. One is called “Open States” and the other is called “Congress” these are free apps by the group “Sunlight Foundation”.

Probably 80% of our health challenges concern what we put in our mouths. We should take a lesson from Daniel (who had a lifestyle that profited him and honored God – good looking, intelligent in every branch of wisdom, endowed with understanding and discerning knowledge, and had the ability to serve in the Kings court [must be good]), who was able to demonstrate a difference in just 10 days. Usually when we refer to this passage we state that with good eating you can be better in 10 days, but really the passage suggests that you health will decline in just 10 days of not eating heathy foods. The homework assignment for those that have Netflix is to watch Forks Over Knives.

SMARTtarget (DOM) POLITICALfitness Nov-2014

To get an “A” you must be a registered voter, vote 90% of the time, and write a letter to one of your political representatives.

As we are upon an election this is a good time to focus on political fitness. In reality your interest in politics should not end with an election, it’s really the beginning.

You are encouraged to write to your political leadership and thank them for something that they have done/said that you like, as we tend to get more of what we focus on, or give our attention to.

In this section post the people/principles, products, and practices that help you get an “A” in this category.

SMARTtarget (DOM) Nutritional Fitness – Nov 2014

Please post in this discussion the people/principles, products, and practices that help you eat better. You can get some starter information from SMARTsteps posted at www.BetterME.us. The general goals; appropriate calories, whole foods plant based diet, with adequate Vit D and minerals, limited hydrogenated oils and sugar.

SMARTmessage (DOM) 11/2/14

We are now up to 104 likes on the SMARTplace page. This number needs to be matched by the number of report cards that are filled out at www.BetterME.us. If you have trouble completing this please email me. Please do this as this is how we are tracking our effort and can tell whether or not we are improving.

To get the most out of the SMARTplace effort, please commit to trying or posting one entry (or more) each week.
Summaries recommendations for targets mental fitness and family direction have been posted. Feel free to add to the mental fitness and family vision TARGETS if you find things of value. Also try out as many of the recommendations as you can and comment on whether you find it helpful. This is how we whether it represents a universal “truth” vs just helping the person who posted it.
Will be changing to nutritional fitness, so look for the people, products, and, practices that help you improve you eating. You can get some directions by downloading steps 4,5, and 6 from the SMARTsteps program at www.BetterME.us under the about tab.

The second target will be political fitness. To get an A, you must be a registered voter, vote in 90% of the elections, and write a letter to a political official. It is good time for political fitness as an election is right around the corner. It is suggested that you write to your officials early and than them for something that they are doing that you like (because what we focus on tends to grow).

Pastor Kelly endorsed the imagery at night before going to sleep posting. She does find this helpful.

SMARTsummary (DOM) October 2014

Hear are all of the recommendations to improve mental fitness that surfaced at Dunamis for the month of October for the Targets 1) Mental Fitness and 2) Family Vision:

Mental Fitness:

People
-Andy Stanley – Making Decisions: mentions four questions that will lead you to better choices and less regrets http://yourmove.is/watch/your-move/1

-John Kabat-Zinn video on Mindfulness: this video has over a 2 million views and serves as a good introduction to mindfulness meditation. http://youtu.be/3nwwKbM_vJc

-Jeff Lliff video on the importance of sleep: interesting discussion on the purpose of sleep. It will become clear why we should get the sleep we need. http://youtu.be/MJK-dMlATmM

-Dr Andrew Weil video on breathing: discussed 4-7-8 breathing, a very good technique to calm your spirit and improve your well-being. Takes less than 5 minutes a day.  http://youtu.be/SclZwqr5xpEhttp://youtu.be/_Wg-UAYGa2A

Products
-IPhone sleep monitoring app: monitoring you sleep will give you insights as to the quality of your sleep and activities that help or hurt.

-Magnet Words: a recommendation from SMARTsteps as a way to control some of your subconscious behavior. And it works in the background.

Practice
-10 minutes of mindful meditation

-4-7-8 breathing: recommended and taught by Dr. Andrew Weil

-8 hours of sleep per night: recommended in SMARTsteps. There is much science to support this, though a 7 hour target may also work.

-Gratitude journaling: recommended in SMARTsteps. Based on work by Dr. Emmons. Scripture also suggests that you get more of what you focus on.

-Emotional Audit: suggested in SMARTsteps, most become aware of the amount of time spent in negativity, and this awareness is a part of the healing process.

-60 minutes of silence per day: recommended in SMARTsteps and helps to avoid brain fatigue, which supports better decision making.

Family Direction
People
-Adam Leipzig on purpose: Discusses five questions to help you figure out and describe your life’s purpose in 5 minutes.
http://youtu.be/vVsXO9brK7M

-Josh Kaufman TED talk on getting good in 20 hours
Much of the wisdom out there suggest that it take 10,000 to master a subject. But this is mastery, not beings good. Being good only takes 20 hours of targeted practice. Realize that everyday you are getting good at something, make sure it’s something helpful. http://youtu.be/5MgBikgcWnY now at 2million views.

-Martin Grunberg discussing the importance of habits: Note that you are strengthening habits everyday. Better to strengthen those that help you achieve you purpose/priority. http://youtu.be/ThjFnvEENRw

-Andy Stanly video on Future Family: discusses one question that can dramatically change the family dynamics http://yourmove.is/watch/future-family/1

-Lissa Rankin TEDx talk on what is important for health
http://youtu.be/7tu9nJmr4Xs
Very interesting talk that disease is just that dis-ease with your inner self. If you want to be healthy there are targets other than rest, nutrition, and physical activity. Really health comes from health relationships with others and our environment, wow social fitness.

-Book: Steven Covey: seven habits of highly effective families

-Quote: Mark Twain – “the two most important days of your life are when you were born and when you find out why”

Products
-Habit Factor App: encourages you to identify the habits that support a goal. Makes it easy to track and give you feedback, especially if the habit does not have to be done daily.

Practices
-Vision as a recurring task on phone: if you make your vision a recurring task you can be reminded at regular intervals what it is. May also help to write and reflect whether you have been living consistent with the vision since the last alarm.

-Vision board: Placing a vision board in the bedroom, helps to keep one focused on the road ahead before sleep and first thing in the morning.

-Nighttime imagery: Using imagery just before sleep, of the one or two tasks that should occur in the next day. May be helpful to construct a constructive morning. Try to make the image as real as possible, imagining all senses, and then smile to add some emotion.